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It can be tempting to slip into something more snarky if you are out to find your soulmate, and the person you matched with is only into sex.Unless he says something crude or send unsolicited nudes, though, I think respecting that someone is looking for something other than what you're looking for (if that is what is happening) is important. It might also seem like it's super intimidating to ask someone whether they're looking for something serious before meeting up for a first date.It can be kind of tough to gauge somebody's true intentions on Tinder.The app works best as a tool for hooking up -- nothing fizzles the libido like a long, drawn-out message exchange -- but I've known more than one person to meet their long-term companion on it, too. If you know what you looking for, that's a good start, too.My magic 8 ball says he's probably looking for sex.This question can obviously be taken more than one way.If his response leaves things between you unclear, then it might be time to get a little more specific with your line of interrogation. The concept that a first date has to be "chill" and that "you should wait to see how things unfold" is irrelevant if you know what you are looking for and want to find it.Plus, the benefit of online dating is that you don't have to meet up with someone if they aren't what you're looking for!
There's nothing wrong with hookups, flings, f*ck buddies, or any other kind of casual relationship under the sun, as long as the two people involved are on the same page.
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As someone who craves companionship, but gets freaked out by the implications of commitment, my response to this question would likely be a bit evasive, too. If you're intrigued by someone -- even if you suspect it isn't going to last -- I think it's still worth it to meet up with them just once to see what unfolds.
Plus, you haven't even met this person, so you don't even know if If you've asked all of the above, and you're still not totally clear on what he's looking for, then congratulations, you've found someone so confusing and evasive, they are probably a mystery even to themselves. So lighten up, make a joke, and figure out your dinner plans.